Spiritual Romance Under The Northern Lights
Have you ever wanted to write romantic love letters to your spouse or sweetheart? Are you seeking to increase the intimacy and passion in your relationship in a way that only romantic messages can accomplish? Well, read on -- we asked 100 of the top experts to share their tips about how to write the best romantic love letters. And you won't believe how easy it is!
The number one piece of advice that sex experts give, when writing a romantic letter, is to be yourself. Tell your loved one how you really feel in your own words. Don't try to be someone you are not and don't use sappy words that aren't your own. Your spouse fell in love with you and you are the one they really want to hear from.
Be specific: most of our top sex experts urged people who want to learn how to write romantic love letters to focus on specifics in their writings. Instead of expressing vague sentimental thoughts, say exactly how you feel and what you want to do with your partner, using concrete details.
Reflecting on the difficulty most people have with passionately expressing their love for another person, a prominent sex expert recently stated, "Most of us are trained to be repressed. We are so scared to show our true, burning, passion, because it is not accepted in our society." Writing a romantic letter requires the writer to set aside shame, fear and repression, and instead embrace his or her inner lover.
Be erotic: remember that true, passionate, love is not just all about roses and chocolates and teddy bears. The passion and desire two people can share is one of the most beautiful things in the world. So don't censor yourself when you write romantic love letters -- instead, try to reach down into your pit of burning desire and let it flow onto the page.
Lastly, you should put a little something extra in the envelope with your love letter. Good examples include the lipstick print of a kiss, rose petals, or some other object that reminds your partner of a precious shared memory. According to some experts on sexuality, romantic memories can be stimulated by including a picture of the two of you from some special time together.
If you want to increase your passion and intimacy, romantic messages are a great way to accomplish this. Some experts have shared tips on the best ways to create romantic memories by write romantic love letters. Some of these tips are to be yourself (use your personal voice), create a vivid image (use concrete details), be passionate (overcome your repression), and be erotic (express your burning desire for another person). Experts also suggest that you enclose something extra in your envelope, such as rose petals, a photo, or something else that will remind your lover of a shared experience.
Published September 28th, 2007
Filed in Family
